If you believe your child is being bullied or if your child brings up the subject, it is important for you to take action.
LINK TO GUIDANCE FOR PARENTS ON THE ANTI-BULLYING BILL OF RIGHTS ACT
Below are some steps you can take [READ GUIDANCE FOR PARENTS…]:
• Report the matter to school officials – If you suspect bullying, report the behavior and make it clear that you want an investigation according to the procedures in the ABR. You should always contact school officials if you believe an incident involves a student conduct issue that is affecting your child’s education and well-being at school.
• Document ongoing bullying – Team with your child to keep a record of all bullying incidents. If the behavior involves cyberbullying, keep a record of all messages or postings. Do not erase or change any electronic files. More information on cyberbullying is provided in the sections of this guide titled Steps to Prevent Cyberbullying (page 33), What to Do if Your Child Experiences Cyberbullying (pages 33-34) and Cyberbullying Resources (pages 36-37).
• Talk with your child – Give your child undivided attention.
• Empathize with your child – Reinforce that bullying is wrong, that it is not your child’s fault, and that you are glad they had the courage to tell you about it.
• Develop solutions together – Work together to find solutions and provide positive ideas for ways to respond to bullying. Help your child gain confidence by rehearsing the responses.
• Be persistent – Bullying, especially ongoing bullying, may not be stopped in one attempt.
• Stay alert to other problems – Some of the warning signs for bullying might actually be indicators of other serious problems.
• Cooperate with school staff – Partner with school staff and stay informed of investigations to be sure the Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights is being followed.
