It’s your life, Own It
When you blame others for your problems, you give up your ability to solve them. Do you really want to do that?
No matter who may have done what, your best strategy is to take ownership for it. Though it may be their fault, it’s your life. Don’t depend on those who have hurt you in the past to help you in the future. Forget about who is to blame. Focus on what is to be done.
If you’re not satisfied with your circumstances, it’s up to you to change them for the better. Yes, there are many things out of your control. Accept it, adjust for it, and put all your efforts into moving forward as a result of your own thoughts, your own actions.
The energy it would take to blame and hold a grudge can be used instead to make a positive difference. Rather than perpetuating something unpleasant in your past, choose to leave it behind. Create your future the way you would like it to be. It’s your life, own it.
until next time… be black belt strong and have a great day.
